<p>The longer you wait the more awkward it will get to bring it up… Roshke’s private message idea is a good one.</p>
<p>I would say congratulations. maybe. maybe ignore it. I wouldn’t feel especially offended because I am also a pretty private person, do not have a facebook, but might not tell anyone( online discussions with strangers do not count lol)about big events/decisions. it all depends on how I am feeling. in part because I do not like to share anything and I don’t always know if it would actually interest people. i have found of people I considered pretty good friends getting, divorced, having a kid etc( when it is mega mega obvious this person is pregnant- like 7-8th month). I can see someone not mentioning their marrage after having been together off and on for 20 years…</p>