<p>a-fake…again I am going to encourage you to let it go–or at least think very carefully about what message your continued involvement sends to your son. To me, it sends a message that through good works, you can somehow make the situation better, add a ‘fix’ to it. However, I suggest that the extent of his problems are unknown to you and your good works would only serve to make the parents feel worse. You and your son are unable to ‘fix’ this boy. Your son needs to learn that some sorrows are not fixable through good works. That’s an improtant lesson for a kid with a too big heart.<br>
My big hearted brother married someone in order to ‘fix’ her. Well twenty years later, guess what? He’s miserable, she’s far from fixed and their kids are at risk.<br>
Tom’s parents will sort it out. A boy coming home from college abruptly is all the bad news they need to figure out that all is not right with him. He’s told your son he stole money, he will probably tell his parents. </p>
<p>Add your prayers but show your son how you let go of some sorrows and trust others to do their work.</p>