Also, since we are talking about fit. I think there are some kids who will find fit in a lot of places. Then there are some who will not. It’s important to figure out which your kid is (maybe the kid already knows). My daughter has a good friend who went to St.Marks, HATED it, transferred to St.Pauls, LOVES it. I would not have thought they were so different but to said friend they were night and day.
I think I am lucky and my older is a fit in anywhere, my younger is a fit in only one place kid.