Adult children and heartbreak

Parent Cafe
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I agree with doschicos. My relationship with my ex-husband is like a relationship with a close sibling.

The feeling of affinity even extends to his girlfriend (although she doesn’t feel the same way about me). She’s very prominent in the arts and when people happen to mention one of her projects, I always want to say, “That’s my _____________'s project!,” but there’s no recognized relationship for one’s ex-husband’s girlfriend. Also, it makes no sense to people that I would be excited by my ex-husband’s girlfriend’s project, so I just don’t mention it.

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My son’s recent ex called me, but I missed the call. I just responded by a text. I don’t think it is fair to tell her I miss her.

Yesterday. My son received a package from her, with his belongings. Most important, his Aunt on FA’s side had given her jewelry, and asked that if they break up, she return it. She is so fair, and sweet.

I don’t mean to derail the thread. I honestly thought I would be the next on the MOG thread, asking for support on choosing a dress.

My son is contacting me more, because he has lost his best friend.