<p>My ex wants to get back together, and I kinda want to as well but I’m afraid to tell him that I slept with two people since we broke up. Do you think he’ll care?</p>
<p>Why do you keep going back to him?!?! You’d think that you learned your lesson already.</p>
<p>Yeah, don’t go back to him, just keep on sleeping with different men until you lose count and it no longer means anything to you.</p>
<p>Just kidding. Every guy is different.</p>
<p>How long has it been since you guys broke up?</p>
<p>2 guys in a few weeks seems slutty, but 2 guys in a few months is, at least for me, acceptable.</p>
<p>Like, it’s okay to have an abortion then: it’s not okay to have an abortion now…</p>
<p>Actually, any time is a good time for an abortion, especially during labor.</p>
<p>Wait, what am I talking about. Anyway, two guys is two guys, what difference does it make, the timeframe between the rendez-vous?</p>
<p>Oops, changed my mind about this.</p>
<p>Are you equating same-sex encounters to abortion? Or sleeping with 2 people since the break-up?</p>
<p>be honest and tell him, and accept the consequences.</p>
<p>why do you have to tell him you slept with other people? it will just hurt his pride. i mean its not like you were together then either, so he can’t think of it as cheating. besides, he probably slept with other girls too.</p>
<p>Why do you all assume that the OP’s past relationship with this person was bad? It may not have been, so “going back” might not be so bad.</p>
<p>The question on my mind: what is the OP’s gender?</p>
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<p>He (he’s a guy) has posted multiple threads about how bad his past relationship was.</p>
<p>So the OP is gay?</p>
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OP said “…I’m afraid to tell him that I slept…” So OP wants to get back with this guy…but according to rockermcr, OP is a dude.
I guess so.</p>
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<p>This laissez-faire attitude is what accounts for over half of marriages failing =)</p>
<p>I was equating promiscuity to abortion, which in retrospect is not a good analogy. I was also being sarcastic: sorry.</p>
<p>Anyway, I didn’t realize that you were gay, because I don’t follow this board diligently. But, I would imagine that gay people enjoy stable, loving relationships, too.</p>
<p>I am firmly against promiscuous sex, but then some people would argue that: “Oh, if you really loved him/her for who he/she is as a person, you wouldn’t care how many people he/she has had sex with.” But, that ignores the sanctity of sex and the meaning it carries between two people in a truly loving relationship. </p>
<p>Er… don’t tell him unless he asks, then.</p>
<p>OP: since your gender always becomes a question in threads, would you maybe consider putting “Gender: Male” under your name?</p>
<p>ANyways, I’m glad you changed your mind about this. Maybe if you did tell him about the 2 other people, he’d leave you alone (from what you have said, he sound like the shallow type that wouldn’t be ok with u doing that, but you should be ok with it if he did the same).</p>
<p>I find someone’s sexual history important to know to protect myself health-wise, and he feels the same. I’m surprised some of you guys would even consider concealing that information. Have you guys even been in this position?</p>
<p>look, just because you were “on a break” or whatever, that doesn’t mean it’s okay to sleep with other people, meaning that it is considered cheating, and not to be taken lightly. I’m not attacking you, I’m just saying to the people here who said it’s okay that a break up or trial separation or whatever is not a green light. If the relationship is worth it, honesty is the best way to go; that’s f you really want to get the most out of the relationship.</p>
<p>We weren’t on break though… we were broken up.</p>
<p>okay, how long ago. maybe it was a little too soon. either way, if you want to get back together, be honest. The worst thing to do is to build, or rebuild in your case, a relationship based on lies.</p>
<p>okay well i dont think hell mind if your a guy</p>