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<p>I checked out your link, marie, and was struck by this sentence:</p>

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<p>The response rate to their survey was high at 42%, so high that even if we assume all the women who had been raped responded to the survey and the non-responders weren’t raped (not a plausible assumption), the rape rate would still be horrifying. Note also that this is the rate of <em>completed rapes</em>. Rape attempts weren’t included, other unwanted sexual contact wasn’t included. Only penetration.</p>

<p>The survey took place at two large publics, one in the South and one in the Midwest. I don’t know why we’d assume that those two universities would be utterly unrepresentative of four year colleges nationwide. They might be, but why would they be?</p>

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<p>So in that article the authors cite a figure of 1 in 7 and then give a few examples of why that could be low and a few examples of why it could be high, then conclude that it is probably pretty close because the two effects cancel each other out.</p>

<p>Let’s all agree then to start quoting the 1 in 7 statistic!</p>

<p>OH WAIT…that’s not high enough. It is 1 in thousands…Let’s go find another article to link to <he says=“” in=“” a=“” sarcastic=“” voice=“”></he></p>

<p>Right, it’s somewhere between I in 5 and 6 in 1000 depending on your choice of studies and what counts and how the question is phrased and the ultimate purpose of the research. I don’t find that at all surprising.</p>

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<p>Completely off topic.</p>

<p>While the above is certainly factually true and quite admirable in spirit as well, history shows us that very well-meaning people led their followers down the path of totalitarianism in the search for that elusive “as close to perfect as possible” society. As Voltaire said:</p>

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<p><a href=“Nirvana fallacy - Wikipedia”>http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nirvana_fallacy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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<p>On topic.</p>

<p>I believe attitudes of men towards women including but not limited to sex have improved a lot from the previous generation but there is still a lot of work to be done. JMHO.</p>

<p>When Voltaire said “Le mieux est l’ennemi du bien” (the best is the enemy of the good) he was counseling against perfectionism. In our zeal to improve, we should not make things worse. </p>

<p>Now that you’ve quoted that famous saying with which we are all familiar, perhaps you can explain how it applies in this situation, Andrei. Obviously, some changes intended to improve instead make things worse. Equally obviously, some changes intended to improve do indeed improve. In order to make an argument that a particular already implemented or newly proposed change made or will make things worse, you have to make an argument. You have not done so. Merely quoting a saying will convince no one.</p>

<p>I agree that rape is more prevalent outside campus walls, and that part of the issue is “in loco parentis” that sending a kid off to college, usually for a ton of money, gives parents and society to some extent a feeling of offense when a <em>college girl</em> gets raped especially if it is by a <em>college guy</em>. </p>

<p>We are offended when someone goes off campus, gets drunk with freinds, ends up alone in a strange town, and then gets abducted, raped, and killed. But not as offended by that as by campus rape.</p>

<p>But instead of focusing on stopping that kind of crime, we are focusing on the perp and victim both being college students. Because, I mean, gee, shouldn’t they both know better? (sarcasm off)</p>

<p>It’s like the boys choir school scandal. That somehow, because it was a boys choir school, pedophile teachers wouldn’t be found. We want to think that these kids who auditioned and busted their butts for their craft, went to the exclusive choir school to find the perfect supportive environment.</p>

<p>There was a hockey player who was raped multiple times by his coach. Called him his wife, threatened him with a gun when he said he didn’t want to continue the abuse. Here’s an excerpt from one of his interviews: <a href=“http://live.washingtonpost.com/sheldon-kennedy.html”>http://live.washingtonpost.com/sheldon-kennedy.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

<p>It isn’t safe at college because it isn’t safe anywhere, even if your kid ends up with the best of the best at a top college or sport team. I guess if there is something to say, perhaps it is that if you are raped in a bar bathroom, you are more likely to be able to get the police to pay attention and get a conviction, than if you are raped on a college campus. Or if you are raped by your award-winning coach.</p>

<p>And that is the problem, the “epidemic” - not handling these cases fairly or correctly, and increasing the suffering of the victim and likely of the accused as well.</p>

<p>In this world we live in, even if the accused is guilty, we cannot just arrest him, set him free, and then give him a trial and put him in jail for a few years and then he gets out. We have to try everything in the media. The college is at fault. Underage drinking is at fault. The parents of the accused and the victim are at fault.</p>

<p>Returning to the child abuse sidenote above, think about this. PSU was NOT concerned about the rape of an 11 year old boy, on their campus by an employee. Why would they be concerned about the rape of an 18 year old woman, an adult? Death before dishonor. Even if the dishonor is real, hide it.</p>

<p>I think things are improving too. We aren’t there though.</p>

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<p>I feel so much better. ;)</p>

<p>Where I live the, rape number in 2011 was 1 in 3,000. That was a very bad year. Many years it is zero.</p>

<p>CF, post 3036 was excellent.</p>

<p>The difference in sexual assaults between non students 18-24 and students between 18-24 was negligible in 2013. </p>

<p><a href=“Rape and Sexual Assault Among College-age Females, 1995-2013 | Bureau of Justice Statistics”>Home | Bureau of Justice Statistics;

<p>figure 2 page 3…might have to click the pdf file…Since 2011… Sexual assaults are not higher for non students than students. They are both multiples higher than the population at large.</p>

<p>We can see who actually reads the studies. :)</p>

<p>Andre, I do think your generation is doing better in so many ways than ours.</p>

<p>If you want to talk about hockey coach and child-rapist Graham James, who abused Sheldon Kennedy, let’s talk about him. Let’s see how that horrible case might apply to what we’re discussing.</p>

<p>James coached junior hockey from 1979 to 1996. During that period, we now know, he abused some of his players, not just Sheldon Kennedy, but also superstar Theo Fleury and others. Canadian Junior Hockey is for players ages 16 to 20. The players live away from home.</p>

<p>So, for over 15 years a hockey coach raped some of his players. And although there were always rumors, for fifteen years nothing was done. James was a successful hockey coach who sent players to the NHL. </p>

<p>Some people might look at that scandal and conclude that we need to do better about supporting young people living away from home for the first time to have a safe, supportive place to report that they are victims of sexual assaults. Some people might say that ignoring and dismissing the problems of some of the young players turned out to be a bad approach.</p>

<p>That conservative outpost called The Washington Post rates “one in five” at one Pinnochio. Seems a bit low to me.</p>

<p><a href=“http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/fact-checker/wp/2014/12/17/one-in-five-women-in-college-sexually-assaulted-an-update/”>http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/fact-checker/wp/2014/12/17/one-in-five-women-in-college-sexually-assaulted-an-update/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

<p>Well…I know the thread has moved on, but going to mom2’s question in post 3001:</p>

<p>I am NOT expressing “my view” of what things should be. I am ONLY saying that we routinely allow people to be “punished” in ways other than criminal convictions and penalities if they are PROBABLY guilty of some conduct and in some contexts we have created systems that do this. We may even allow them to be “punished” if they have only been accused of some conduct and there has never been a finding of guilt. If we have some “second system” for dealing with sexual assault on campus in addition to the criminal courts, this isn’t unique. </p>

<p>One example I used was the employee who is accused of theft by a tenant. Generally, in a unionized building, the employer can NOT fire an employee based on a mere accusation. (In many states, if you don’t have a written employment agreement and/or belong to a union, an employer can fire you for any reason other than one contrary to public policy, e.g., he wants to get rid of all employees over the age of 40.) The employer must conduct a reasonable investigation. How that is conducted is determined by the specific provisions of the collective bargaining agreement. Often there will be some sort of hearing in which the evidence is reviewed.</p>

<p>As I understand it, if the hearing results in the employee losing his job and the employee challenges the firing, the focus in the appeal to the courts or the National Labor Relations board is on whether the owner/management conducted a reasonable investigation in good faith. The employer does NOT have to prove that the employee is guilty of the conduct beyond a reasonable doubt. If the proceedings meet the standards for them set forth in the collective bargaining agreement, and there is no evidence that the employer was motivated by something unfair, the employee can be fired. </p>

<p>In the securities and banking industries, since employees have access to customer funds, if an employer investigates and concludes that a broker probably stole money from a client, forged a customer’s signature, or did something else of that sort, it HAS to fire him and report that as the reason for the employee’s termination to the relevant regulatory authorities. That information is available to the public. Again, it does NOT have to prove this beyond a reasonable doubt. Indeed, if the employee quits when he learns of the investigation but before it is concluded, that fact must be reported, even though there is no finding that he is guilty of the conduct under investigation. </p>

<p>Greater penalties may be imposed by FINRA, the self-regulatory organization for the securities industry, after a hearing. In that hearing, the broker doesn’t get the protection of our criminal procedures. For example, if he refuses to testify, citing the Fifth Amendment, he can be barred from working for any brokerage firm in the future. FINRA can also impose monetary penalties. In other words, society doesn’t say, if a broker is accused of forging a customer’s signature, the only thing his employer can do is suspend him while the DA investigates–coincidentally allowing him to accept employment with another securities firm that doesn’t know about the criminal investigation. </p>

<p>When a landlord thinks a tenant has raped other tenants, it can bring an action to evict him. In the complaint, it can say that it is evicting him because several tenants have accused him of rape. Depending on state law, the housing court will probably determine if the tenant can be evicted. In determining whether or not he can. It’s unlikely that the court will require the landlord prove the tenant’s guilt beyond a reasonable doubt. </p>

<p>People who are criminally charged with molesting children can’t be hired by day care centers or public schools in some states, even if the charges were later dismissed. This might result in a person who spent a lot of years training to be a pre-school teacher and who really did not molest a child being unable to work in his/her chosen field. </p>

<p>Again, I am not saying that I think all of these rules are what would exist if I ‘ruled the world.’ (Nor am I saying that they would not.) I am ONLY saying that there is nothing unusual in having “two systems,”–one for determining whether you will be subjected to criminal penalities for having committed a crime “beyond a reasonable doubt” and one for determining whether you PROBABLY committed some wrongful act and therefore shouldn’t be able to continue working as a handyman in a residential building, in a pre-school, at a brokerage firm or living in a building where other tenants have made serious, credible allegations against you. </p>

<p>I know full well that being booted from a college after having been found guilty of sexual assault by the college system rather than by the criminal courts is a severe sanction. I just am surprised that so many people seem to think that this is somehow different than the handyman who is fired after being found guilty of theft under provisions of a collective bargaining agreement–and who is therefore ineligible to be employed by any other unionized building. Or the pre-school teacher who is arrested for molesting a child, and may be unable to find another job working with kids. Or the tenant who is evicted based on allegations made against him by other tenants and a good faith effort by the landlord to determine the credibility of those allegations. </p>

<p>Now, I want there to be fair procedures. I don’t want there to be a “kangaroo court.” However, if the accused is asked whether he added a drug to the alleged victim’s drink and refuses to answer the question, I’m goiing to allow the college to take the refusal to answer into account in determining whether she consented to the sex she had with him, even though this refusal can’t be mentioned in criminal court. If he ADMITS that he raped her, I’m not going to pat him on the back and congratulate him for his “remorse” like the UVa dean. If 20 female students allege they were raped at the same frat, I’m going to take that into account in deciding what action, if any, should be taken against the frat even though not one of those complaints resulted in a criminal conviction.</p>

<p>Reality is that most sexual assaults, especially when the victim and the accused know one another, can’t be proven beyond a reasonable doubt. So, saying that only a criminal conviction whould result in expulsion means that people who probably sexually assaulted one or more victims can remain in campus, knowing that it is extremely unlikely they will face any punishment. </p>

<p>If your claim is, It’s one in five if we include all sexual assaults but “only” one in seven if we only included sexual assaults that include penetration, and the survey was valid for a Midwest public university and a Southern public university but we can’t generalize because maybe the researchers happened to pick the two public universities that are much rapier than all the other schools in the country– if that’s your claim, you are not going to convince anyone to change their mind. </p>

<p>The idea that the researchers just happened to pick the two public colleges where all the rapes occurred, or that a 1 in 7 chance of rape is a small chance, are not even worthy of criticism. Those ideas are silly on the face of it. </p>

<p>You might point out that one of the questions on asks about “unwanted sexual contact” when the person was “unable to provide consent” because they were “drunk” or because of several other listed reasons. You might want to argue that a woman who had become drunk, but not so drunk that we on this board would say she was incapacitated, and who had had sex which she would not have wanted when she was sober, would answer this question in the affirmative. And you might want to further argue that such women make up the overwhelming majority of all the respondents who reported they were penetrated against their will. You might argue that. You could try running that one up the flagpole. I wouldn’t salute.</p>

<p>So maybe 1 in 5 is high. I don’t know. None of us have the crystal ball.
No one is saying zero. Or even random.
So maybe the Jackie story is false. Doesn’t make the problem go away.
So maybe some colleges bungled. The focus of T9 remains: the campus community.</p>

<p>If you want to tackle the sexual assault problem in the greater community, go for it. Get involved. Right now, we have the principles of T9 for campus misconduct, which covers various issues. If you don’t like T9 or some aspect, educate yourself to it- and then go fight it in the public arena. If you don;t like how your alma mater has worked T9 into their Code of Conduct, approach them.</p>

<p>Btw, the media is just no longer the Gods of Truth we once thought they were. It’s “they say.” So ironic to use them to criticize another rag. One may get more right than another, but no guarantee. </p>

<p>Well, I have learned that many people are unable to separate fact from fiction when reading an article. That’s for sure. It’s very interesting.</p>

<p>LF – here’s my final $0.02 on this.</p>

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<li><p>One in five is preposterous. You don’t find an incidence level like that even in Bosnia or Rwanda. Certainly not on a regular college campus.</p></li>
<li><p>Not sure what the real number is. My guess is somewhere between one in 50 and one in 500.</p></li>
<li><p>Whatever the rate is on campus, it is LOWER than it is outside of college.</p></li>
<li><p>The ridiculous one in five, however, did do a lot to create the impression that there is an EPIDEMIC of rape in colleges. We’ve all seen the video of Obama and Biden using that stat. </p></li>
<li><p>Because of that zealous advocacy, the DOE OCR gets cranked up on this issue and way over reaches with its Dear Colleague stuff.</p></li>
<li><p>#5 was completely unnecessary and has embroiled the colleges (which we all pay for) in a hopeless effort that they are ill suited to perform. #5 also has had the effect of under cutting real law enforcement efforts regarding rape. We just don’t see any of these college boys ever getting convicted and serving jail time, which they should.</p></li>
<li><p>The linkage (cooked up by Catherine Mackinnon) between title ix (no sex discrimination allowed in education) and college rape adjudications is really really really a stretch. How can colleges be doing such a bad job (which requires federal intervention) if their students are safer on campus vs. off?</p></li>
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<p>Jonri, thanks for taking the time to write your last post. I appreciate it.</p>

<p>Also, I don’t remember when the media was the gods of truth but the first big journalistic scandal like this that I recall was in 1980 when an ambitious Washington Post reporter named Janet Cooke wrote a Pulitzer Prize winning story about an 8-year old heroin addict called Jimmy. Unfortunately, he didn’t exist. That doesn’t mean there aren’t any kids hooked on heroin in the inner city, but the reporter really needs to find a real one. This is a simple concept, really. </p>

<p>Ray McDonald was just from the released from the 49ers. It was the second accusation of sexual assault.</p>

<p>No arrest yet. No conviction.</p>

<p><a href=“San Francisco 49ers release Ray McDonald amid sexual assault investigation - ESPN”>http://m.espn.go.com/nfl/story?storyId=12042939&src=desktop&rand=ref~{“ref”%3A"https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F"}&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

<p>Remember, NW, that T9 well predates our current administration.</p>

<p>“Some people might look at that scandal and conclude that we need to do better about supporting young people living away from home for the first time to have a safe, supportive place to report that they are victims of sexual assaults. Some people might say that ignoring and dismissing the problems of some of the young players turned out to be a bad approach.”</p>

<p>Uh, YEAH, wouldn’t that be nice? Wouldn’t it be nice if we didn’t just have “Domestic Abuse Hotlines”?</p>

<p>I remember telling my mother that my stomach hurt, probably about 10 or 12. She said “yeah, well my stomach hurt too when I was your age” and let me be. Every time something was wrong with me, she had had it worse somehow.</p>

<p>We need to get past that generation and start setting up systems to heal.</p>

<p>The NYT published this today:
<a href=“Surviving Rape in the Military - The New York Times”>Surviving Rape in the Military - The New York Times;

<p>See if you can see any resemblance to how colleges treat rape and how the military treats rape.</p>

<p>Northwesty. The difference between rape on campus and rape off campus is negligible, if the statistics are reflective of the current culture. Much has been done to change the conversation about rape on college campuses, and this is a very good thing. More needs to be done, obviously.</p>

<p>If a college campus had the same mugging statistic as the average for the country, they would have a problem and they would be putting in order a plan to deal with it. Rape should be no different, as it is a danger to their students, who, at many campuses are REQUIRED to live in that place to attend. As soon as you make a residency requirement, you become responsible for the safety of those you are requiring to live there. </p>

<p>Most of your points are just off, though, in a kind of “let’s discuss this” way.</p>

<p>Campus rape is a real problem and the schools are just now beginning to come to some sort of consensus that it needs to be addressed. They aren’t even close to figuring out how. Just that they are going to have to address it.</p>

<p>You need not like it. But, given the fact that the majority of college attendees in the US are women, it doesn’t surprise me that it is no longer acceptable to them to be told their rape doesn’t matter.</p>

<p>Things change. At one point women also didn’t have the vote. Women couldn’t be “raped” by their husbands. There was no such thing as acquaintance rape. Women did not have access to birth control in the 60s without their husband’s permission, implying that 1. she had to be married and 2. her body was not her own. (There are those out there who would still like that law in place, or better yet, a lack of access to birth control at all.) </p>

<p>Acting as if we have, as a country, figured out how to deal with the absolute fact that a woman’s body is her own and that it is not an automatic “yes” unless there is a forceful “no,” is ridiculous. We haven’t, but we will. </p>

<p>It doesn’t surprise me that the first place we are trying is the place where educated women spend their early adult years. Of course this is the first place women will begin to address the issue. It is the place the ones who make the decisions will have been at that age, too.</p>