" I think it’s usually clear that people are just friendly. But like in the video, when people follow up the question with, “No, really. Where are you from?” and keep at it, keep at it-- it’s still often well-meaning, and I don’t mind it, but it can be frustrating"
I don’t consider someone questioning where you "really"are from as well meaning, that sounds ignorant and downright rude. I might give them the benefit of the doubt that they aren’t trying to be impolite, but I doubt I’d be inclined to spend much time talking to them.