<p>I go clubbin’ alot down in the major city 50 miles away with the people I know from there, not my classmates. I sometimes party at colleges with older people. I go to scattered house parties around here but it’s only because most of them are close to me. </p>
<p>I have 2 best friends that I hang out a lot with, but there have been times when I won’t see them on the weekends for like a month. </p>
<p>I have fun, but it’s weird when I go hang out with people from school because I’m always hanging out with different people every weekend. I’ll go with different groups of friends on different nights. So whenever I’m out I’m basically just a tag-along amidst a group of people who hang out with each other EVERY weekend. </p>
<p>Honestly, I beginning to hate the fact that I have so many acquaintances and so few close friends.</p>
<p>I hang out with my “best” friend a good bit, but I hate almost everyone she’s friends with and she has a boyfriend now who takes her away from us a lot. It’s not like the normal “You hang out with your bf too much” drama. It’s like he’s possessive and controlling and 21 years old and when we, some of her friends and I, were discussing the issue last night I heard he hit her and just other shizz that I need to deal with really soon. So I don’t see her as much anymore.</p>
<p>And then everyone else, I’ll hang out if they want to or if I really want to go somewhere and I don’t want to be out alone, but I don’t care that much about them. I have a set group of people I go skiing with every winter, but we only hang out in the winter. The rest of the time we aren’t even acquaintances.</p>
<p>It’s funny, in 8th and 9th grade I had a really set social circle. I went out almost every weekend and it was always with the same 3 people and sometimes some extras if we wanted to see more people. And then it all fell to pieces the first Saturday in sophomore year. But the first Friday in Sophomore year was one of the best days of my life no matter what happened after.</p>
<p>me- although i don’t know a lot of people OUTSIDE of school, i know practically everyone inside it. and i can hang out& blend with anyone who’s next to me- except, of course, the occasional bi*** who’s only jealous of me anyway. so whatever haha</p>
<p>well up until friday i used to have a well-defined social circle,
but now one of my friends hates me
and his mom thinks i’ve ruined his life
so it’s going to be super awkward
and i’ll probably hop to a new well-defined social circle</p>
<p>or actually, it’ll probably be this super awkward thing
where i try to hang out with my new friends
but also try to hang out with half my old social circle
without being reminded of the other half
things have suddenly become a lot less well-defined for me</p>
<p>I suppose it might help to think that after graduation, you’re probably never going to see your college friends and acquaintances ever again (save a few, depending on where you live, etc.). Don’t worry about it too much, unless you’re really uncomfortable with the idea.</p>