<p>“Shrink-
You know that is one way to see it.”
Wait…WHAT is one way to see it? It’s on another page now… How did I see it?</p>
<p>“If you start telling me that the BIL must not have been under-privileged/needed AA or no longer identifies as such, I say, so change the preferences to pure SES.”</p>
<p>Didn’t mean that at all! I am not underprivileged and neither are my kids, but I think CC has opened my eyes to a whole 'nother universe! I think there are plenty of folks, privileged and unprivileged, who do not think much about affirmative action, and it doesn’t affect their child rearing, and this is often brought up as the downside of AA. I could be wrong, but it’s possible isn’t it? I am curious about the BIL’s perspective, and how come is it different from mine, and the black folks I know. </p>
<p>I suspect it is partly a function of where we live, who we socialize with. I think for example where Fab lives in Georgia, he comes across whole black communities, and maybe they go to private schools, and talk about affirmative action. I bet it’s different in Portland, and maybe in North Carolina. </p>
<p>I just want to know!</p>
<p>“But why wouldn’t you consider that SES might be more helpful, especially as the races mix, and also to tear down some misconceptions about aptitude that preference can support?”</p>
<p>Have you read any posts from me? I never said otheriwse really. I DID say I’m not sure how that will shake out, but as usual, I will be watching. Usually with my mouth shut! I have also said that if there is no cap to the value of SAT scores, I fear an “arms race” in which many otherwise “good enough” students will not be able to compete. No, i don’t know why. Sure, there will be those that can, but I see no problem “filling in” with a few of those “good enough” students, especially if they bring more money, more y chromosomes, or more perspective to the table. I would LOVE to meet the BIL at “the table”!</p>
<p>I would PAY for my kid to go to school with them! </p>
<p>Hey! I DID pay for my kid to go to school with them!</p>
<p>I think your BIL belongs at the table, even if he cant score 2300 on the SAT’s. Then maybe I could meet him, and he could tell me why AA is a problem in child rearing. </p>
<p>"there is no reason to be angry.</p>
<p>Do not push me away with arguments. Listen to all the sides."</p>
<p>Wow…did i seem angry? Did I seem to be arguing?</p>