<p>I’m not comfortable with cremation for myself, nor do I like conventional interments. Ideally, I’d just like to be thrown in the woods, but since that’s not feasible, I’m hoping that “green” cemeteries will continue to be an option. That’s what i’d like.</p>
<p>When my MIL died, she was cremated. H knew I am uncomfortable with the whole ashes thing, so he didn’t tell me his mom was in our attic, till the day before her internment (as his youngest sister wanted a grave to visit.) That day, H woke up too sick to bring her to the interment, (psychosomatic, I think) so I had to. She rode in the car with me (we talked along the way), I dropped her off with other family members (an hour away) but left before actual event–one kid had some kind of school thing going on. I don’t like funereal stuff.</p>