At what age do you share detailed financial information with your adult children?

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The daughter who requested I be removed from her account is 22, graduated a year ago, and has no reason for me to be off the account other than that’s what she wants. It doesn’t change the account (which will still be labeled as a ‘youth’ account by the type of number originally assigned). I did not look at her account or share info with others.

Yep, one child is a beneficiary now and the other is not. Family dynamics. There are consequences to distancing yourself from your family, even at 22.

This sounds really retaliatory. Is that really the message you are intending to send? And by taking you off her account, is your daughter actually “distancing herself from the family?” To me, that sounds like a very normal thing to ask for at her age. It seems however, that you have taken great offense to it.