I am not on either D’s accounts, but the bank did ask for (and received) permission from them to accept deposits from me to their accounts, so I don’t have to send them a check. I cannot access their accounts, see the balances, or get any information about them. We don’t give D1 an allowance anymore, but occasionally we will reimburse her for certain expenses (for example, she paid for a hotel we stayed at so she could get points or something). D2 is in grad school, so we still deposit money into her account on a monthly basis. One more year and she will be off the dole.