<p>Proud grandmas are sometimes eager to throw the shower…I think it’s sweet and not tacky in the least. Same with Aunts. </p>
<p>I’d go to the shower and bring the same gift no matter who was hosting. It’s not the baby’s fault that mom is young and a bit socially clueless. Of maybe we old ladies are just stick in the mud types who are hanging on to an old fashioned sense of propriety that is no longer relevant. Times are a’changing? </p>