<p>In essence whether her family solicits on her behalf or she solicits on her behalf, I see no real difference in the end. Hopefully she is inviting family and friends that want to share in her happy occasion. I just think we need to throw-out all the judgement. I find all of these smoke and mirrors and formalities to be limiting. My hope would be that the attendees are close enough to her so as not to judge her decisions in this area.</p>