<p>Oh boy, this is just silly. Obviously the most important thing is that a beautiful new life is being celebrated. Who really cares who is hosting the party? Every shower is a gift giving occasion, so I guess all showers are just a ploy to get gifts? If so, fine by me. Most people I know are happy to contribute to starting the new baby/family off on this exciting chapter. I say go, have a cup of punch, and shower mom and baby to be with love and support. </p>