Hi all – I realize I’m very late to announce and that most of you have likely moved on, but I wanted to share the final outcome:
Accepted:
Pace/Sands College of Performing Arts
NYU/Tisch
UConn
Muhlenberg
Emerson
James Madison
SCAD
Waitlist:
Rutgers
Boston University
Northwestern
Posse Scholarship finalist but no:
UNCSA
Auditions but no:
SUNY-Purchase
Ithaca
DePaul
Julliard
Elon
No:
Carnegie-Mellon
It came down to NYU, Emerson, and Pace. And the decision is… Pace/Sands College of Performing Arts!!!
Top-rated program, great industry links, great scholarship offer, and in New York! Our kiddo could not be more excited. 
Thanks to all on this chat who were a big help along the way!