<p>Here lies the crux of the problem. Not to sound un-PC, but what exactly is hazing? I am sure there are examples which we would all agree to be hazing. But in other cases, some of us may view it as bonding or tradition. You put 30, 40, or more kids together in a dorm and there can be dynamics that some may view as hazing. Boys like to give each other crap about a lot of stuff. We live in a culture where it is difficult for young men to show their feelings - especially affection for each other. Sometimes it manifests itself in teasing, wrestling, whatever. It’s actually quite complicated and, IMHO, speaks to a larger social issue than anything specific to boarding schools. The 24/7 living conditions of boarding school might make it more obvious, however.</p>
<p>Thacherparent - Thacher does have a plus with the weather. I do find that cabin fever makes things worse during New England winters, especially in female dorms.</p>