<p>My definition of bullying is anything that makes a person feel singled out or isolated from a group. I think “that” person has the right to define what behavior constitutes bullying. Some people have thick skin, so it is probably different for everyone. But once it is communicated that the person is feeling singled out, then the behavior has to stop or it is IMO definitely bullying.</p>
<p>Hazing to me is something entirely different. It is forcing someone to do something that they are uncomfortable with, or that is unsafe, in order to gain acceptance into a particular group. In general, I think BS’s keep a close watch out for this sort of thing. It can lead to dangerous behavior and can really threaten the more positive forms of bonding that takes place in these communities.</p>