It’s important to be a good loser, but it’s as important to be a good winner. There are kids that will be crushed and heartbroken by their ED decisions. I think it shows character to consider their feelings. A kid who has good news already won the big prize. They can celebrate in so many ways. Must they also celebrate in a way that makes someone who is less fortunate feel even worse?
If your daughter doesn’t get admitted, how will she feel seeing some of her friends wearing their school swag and talking about how excited they are? If she doesn’t feel worse then I say she must be a pretty unusual teenager!