“Well, except that your husband is screwing you big time. I think that is unarguably obvious. Possibly with some unknown malicious intent of economical benefit if his intelligence correlates his 6x times income. We can’t know why. Even experience divorce attorneys will need more information from you to guess why he is attempting something apparently so stupid. But if you try to rely more on nonprofessionals beyond emotional support, then you may end up believing a critical but wrong advise which you can be more inclined to believe.”
Read this over many times. Especially the first line. And then the second sentence.
Don’t be stupid.