It is true - schools look at need differently. That’s why you need to apply to many - and check the NPCs which aren’t always right. We see some kids on here get more, some less than the NPCs say.
But sometimes parents with businesses - the NPCs are off - because of expense writedowns a college may not accept. Other schools include home equity and there can be other variances - hence the difference between Lehigh and Lafayette. Lehigh, btw, is need blind (on most kids they say) whereas Lafayette clearly isn’t - so Lafayette may be more aggressive but can easily say no. Lehighs grants are $3K larger on average than Laf - to show this somewhat.
There are schools out there with full rides but hard to get - from a Wash & Lee - which is also need blind to SMU to a student recently got one at East Carolina to UNC Charlotte to many more (UNC, UVA, Davidson, Emory to name a few). The issue becomes are you Ivy worthy which you often need to be to get these (maybe not quite at East Carolina) to how many apps can you do.
It sounds like you are in the position of your family has given you a limited budget but earns enough to not go free.
So my suggestion - get your SAT out of the way. Let’s see how you do.
I don’t see schools like Kalamazoo or Beloit or Depauw getting to $10K but you can check them.
Here is the list of colleges that meet need - it’s third party but you can go through some of the NPCs - have your family do it. You can save their info on the college board website to save time. Use the NPCs, not my intuition.
For a kid, I know it stinks - but please realize, colleges are businesses. The state schools - which you have many - will support its students and do in Michigan with free tuition if qualified but that still leaves room and board. Private colleges are that - so they can’t just enroll kids. People have to pay the bills. It’s like sometimes you stay at a Days Inn instead of a Marriot when you travel. You go where you can afford and for you, it might be community college - or you might get lucky so find those NPCs that work and focus there.
Maybe mix in a school with a hail mary (free scholarship) but they are a lot of work and competition insane. You’ll be able to evaluate after getting an SAT if those are worth it.
Wayne State has a free tuition program - ie the state taking care of you. So tuition is reasonable and as mentioned above, their NPC will give you the merit amount - so likely affordable without (with you taking a summer job or small loan).
PS - make sure to look at Skidmore. Why? There’s another post - a student got $26K or so at meets need Rochester but $4K at Skidmore. Not sure why the delta - but worth a look.
Good luck.
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