I am going to ignore costs, here, but definitely have parents do NPC and have a real convo. This is super important. Your stats can get you good merit in many places, but you will need to go down a bit in rankings.
Also, that is a LOT of schools, many with lots of essays, I would slim down list if I were you (and I am not:)
Wharton/Penn, Stanford, UChicago (especially RD), Harvard are like a lottery ticket. Feel free to get one. You may get into one of them (I do not think it is impossible at all), but unlikely (as it is for pretty much everyone except recruits). Most, not all, kids who apply are quite qualified.
My 2 cents:
Likely are UMass and Fordham (and both are great for your interests!).
Low reach: everything not mentioned yet:)
I think you have have decent shot (better than the published rates at least:) at BU/NYU/Emory/Barnard/Wellesley. I know less about Pomona/Claremont’s acceptance from MA area. I think the number of real work experiences is super helpful, and the cold calling startup experience too. I would be surprised if you don’t get into a couple.