UConn may be too large (although not huge as flagships go), but it seemed worth pointing out that their Cognitive Science major, which spans your daughter’s interests nicely, is eligible for tuition reciprocity for Vermont students:
Have you considered Brandeis? Also, if she likes Skidmore, Connecticut College could be worth a look too - they do have some merit awards, and their interdisciplinary-oriented curriculum may appeal. If you like Muhlenberg as a likely, check out Juniata also.