There is a lot of information available on Exeter and Andover on this forum… getting in touch with real students and parents is really a good idea, they can tell you the reality and answer your questions and clear your doubts. Can someone shed more information on Milton, I don’t see a lot available but I do know it is a fantastic school and at par with Andover and Exeter, they use Harkness method just like Exeter. The only difference I found is the % mix of day/boarding. Phenomenal on athletics and I have heard that school environment is very supportive of students as individual not just the athletic mold.