Class of 2019 (the journey begins) - Sharing,Venting, Etc

WSU is rolling

Ithaca seems to have an interesting (and unpredictable) timetable. I knew someone who got a yes right away after unifieds (for BFA acting) as well as the no I mentioned earlier. After that things seemed to happen kind of randomly with both no’s and yesses popping up at odd moments. If I recall correctly- the 1st clue that a no was coming was that your “myithaca” (Or whatever their online portal was called- too many to remember!) account was disabled. Then a letter came via snailmail.

Which brings up yet another task you may want to complete. 1st the “master” list of all accounts/passwords for various schools. I knew someone last year who was delayed finding out a decision to a favorite school b/c they couldn’t remember the login, and it took time for tech dept to reset. Thankfully, it was a yes
but that was a LONG 24 hours for them!! Then a list (from website or CC knowledge) of how various schools notify. For example- as jkelly mentions, Syracuse is a bizarre wave thing, you have to check every Friday- finally your status changes, and you open a letter on the computer (which in my D’s case was a “congratulations”- it was her 1st acceptance, and Soozie is right- you don’t forget the 1st- it was when I took my 1st real breath in about 6 months!) Anyway- yet another chart to make, so you know which accounts to refresh like a madperson when the time comes, or when to stalk the mailbox (and I have a soft spot for the schools who still do the big envelope- nostalgia), or wait by the phone


The advice about saving all the passwords/logins
good! I recall one year, a client of mine had heard that the BOCO decisions were out but they didn’t have the right information to log on and get the results. It was agonizing for them. Turns out the boy got in and attended!

Sometimes the fact that there is a lot of information out there, can drive you nutty. It is great that people share here
truly TRULY! But then, you hear decisions are out and you don’t get one, for example. More angst than if you didn’t know that information!! I recall in my D’s year, everyone was posting that CMU decisions were posted online, both acceptances and rejections, all on the same day. We checked my D’s page for CMU and there was no decision for several days. We didn’t know what to think. It turns out she was Priority Waitlisted and those few students were notified in writing a few days after the other decisions went out. Who knew? Well, back then I didn’t, but I do now! Also, when my D heard from Syracuse, she got a call from them. We had no idea that could happen. So, in so many ways, it helps to know as much information as possible, but at other times, the knowledge that this one or that one has heard but you haven’t, can drive ya crazy. Try not to read anything into it!!

^Agreed. It does create more angst when you know some have been admitted and you have not yet heard. Angst that probably would not exist if you were ignorant of the process. And sometimes these things happen. One person’s academic stuff may not quite be in order, one auditioned later, the mailroom staff left early that day
 more info does lend itself to more stress. But I am the person who has to know all I can. I trust myself not to read too much into anything other than the decision itself. But I still wanna know.

I would suggest staying off CC to avoid any angst - it is inevitable if you are here!

In an effort to have my S “own” the process, he set up everything on Acceptd, Decision Desk, and in his applications under his e-mail address. As a result I have none of his logon or password information and have to beg him for info! I think we should have created an “application only” e-mail so I could find out things. Begging for information from an 18 year old can drive you nuts!

@MTDadandProud‌ My S owned his process. I did not have his log-in information or permission to open his mail. For us, it was the right thing. He was able to see and process each decision first. I did not think it would be fair for me to access his accounts; he wanted to be the "first to know. " I admit it was maddening when I knew certain decisions were posted and he took his time checking in :-).

@MTDadandProud‌ - My D created an audition/college application email with a professional (rather than cute/funny) email address for all of this correspondence. She and I share ALL user names and passwords. She will continue to use this address for professional purposes once this crazy process is over. I highly recommend this to all. More often than not I find things out before she does, and as I don’t want to spoil any pleasant surprises, I just shoot her a text saying “You’ve Got Mail” and she knows there’s some good news waiting for her. I imagine when the first negative email arrives I’ll text her “Ugh, you’ve got mail
”

My D owns the process, I own the tuition, so we are halfsies on the passcodes. ;:wink:

We had a couple rules about decisions, which I tried really hard to respect. One was that the kid would get to open all decisions. I had the master list, but she opened emails, checked portals etc. Yet another reason to like the big envelopes - the one from muhlenberg (one of her BA safeties) said “You got in”- made it pretty simple!

We got the ‘big envelope’ from Penn State on christmas eve!
It said “thank for your interest, but we are unable to accept you”
 and “But please consider one of our many other programs. We’ve included our complete academic guide to help you decide”.

Don’t trust big envelopes from PSU.

^I can see you are working for that double Manhattan.

maybe
 And don’t mix posts trams, you’ll just confuse everyone. lol

Is PPU still doing the call back process (that they don’t want anyone to refer to as a call back)? Where applicants sent upstairs to sing again?

After doing his 2 songs, my S was told to get in another line where he sang a 3rd song. It was on that floor above the cafeteria. But all the singing was up there.

My kid’s first envelope, a real big one with the bells and whistles was from Emerson and all the excitement of being admitted to Emerson, until we read the fine print that she was deferred (this was EA) for the BFA itself. It was a lot of excitement over nothing and we felt let down and silly about our initial reaction to the big envelope!

We had a big envelope from U Minn which was an academic acceptance (about a week after she submitted) Since it was more than 3 months to her Guthrie audition she didn’t get too excited


That mail we were hoping for before the holidays? Yep, still waiting for it
 Anyone else?

Do you feel like Dory from Finding Nemo? “Keep on ‘Waiting’
Keep on ‘Waiting’
”

Here’s a good one. We received this email from Point Park today:

“Gavin, join our Class of 2019 Facebook group to connect with future classmates and current students!
This group is EXCLUSIVELY for Point Park’s Class of 2019. Meet friends in your major, post questions, find roommates, share your excitement – it’s all about you!”

What would you make of this?
Keep in mind he hasn’t received an acceptance letter of any kind yet. lol