@TexasHookEm - Iāve been reading various threads and feel like you, @DcMdVaMom & I are all sort of in the same boat here. 
D24 is down to NC State or Virginia Tech. She has been admitted as a finance major at VT, and in the Bus Admin program at State. UNC-CH was her #1, but she was waitlisted, so weāve been pivoting. With UNC, I was nervous about another application process into Kenan-Flager her sophomore year (50% acceptance). My advice was if admitted, she would have to be okay with being an Econ major, and getting into KF would just be icing on the cake. I wondered how much career services support Econ majors received at UNC, but now we donāt have to worry about that. Not sure if UGA is the same way, but the students at KF stressed to basically jump through hoops your freshmen year - show up to b-school events, join clubs, network, etc. I also understand at UNC (not sure if UGA is similar), since everyone is basically āundecidedā the first year, there is little to no advising until you get to the business school. One parent compared it to the āHunger Games.ā
But you mentioned your D was accepted to State too. Thatās IS for us. Sort of your Dās same situation with VTā¦most of my Dās friend group will likely go to State (most plan to be engineers, so she likely wonāt see them). But Iāll be honest, I feel like Stateās business school (Poole) is sort ofā¦meh. However, what they do have going for it is location, location, location. Seems like most graduates stay in NC (but also over 80% are from NC), and especially with Apple, Google, and other big tech coming/expanding to RTP, there are plenty of opportunities (and RTP is consistently ranked a top place to live). Sounds like there are coops or internships available during the school year because employers are literally right down the road. If they intern during the summer with a local company, they have the option to live on campus, or of course if theyāre living off campus, they can just stay in their own apartment. Iāve heard that Poole advising isnāt great, but they still seem to have great outcomes for the students. Their starting salaries arenāt as high as VT, but I have to guess cost of living difference between NC & DC Metro plays a role in that difference.
I like NC Stateās campus - IMO, itās not as nice as VT, but I liked it way better than UNC. Campus seems a little chopped up, but in an urban setting guess expansion is difficult. But it also means the central part of campus seems smaller. The student center is new, modern. They have an INCREDIBLE gym. Itās enormous. I didnāt think my D would be excited about the gym, but she was. The football stadium is off site, as is the mens basketball arena (PNC Arenaā¦which also host major concerts & the Carolina Hurricanes NHL team). The engineering campus is a few miles away and located there is the new Hunt Library, which is again, very modern, overlooking a lake. Itās often the photo they use to promote the school. Nelson Hall is where Poole is housed and thatās at the corner of campus, on Hillsborough St. Theyāre in the preliminary stages of planning a new building to house Poole, but it wonāt be done in 4 years. It doesnāt necessarily feel urban to me when on campus - several pockets of green space, but itās easily accessible to downtown Raleigh, plus RDU airport is right down the interstate.
We visited Pamplin/VT last weekend. D24 loved it, and as an alum, I think itās a great fit for her. I think weāre going to go back to State on Sat to walk around since VT is fresh in her mind (both schools are 2 hrs from us). VT is literally twice the price OOS compared to State for us, which we can do without issueā¦but it is an extra $100k over 4 yrs. Sheās leaning VT this week, but especially if State comes up with a nice merit package, itāll be a tough decision for her (sheās very pragmaticā¦you canāt put a price on fit/happiness but is the ROI worth it otherwise?). She was accepted into VTās Honor College, so maybe sheāll get a little merit $$ there, but I have low expectations based off what Iāve read.
Besides fit, donāt discount where the students end up post grad. For us, D24 realizes if she goes to VT and wants to come back to NC, she may have to do a little more leg work than just talking to on campus recruiters largely based in DC (although theyāre sending a fair amount of finance grads to Charlotte for banking).
Best of luck! Such an exciting, but nerve wracking time!!