That is a tough decision! We seem to be down to Oberlin vs. Occidental, and she’s leaning heavily toward Occidental. She really liked the vibe on campus, the small size, and everything L.A. has to offer.
I’m feeling pangs of regret about letting go of Oberlin’s name recognition and wonderful creative environment—but glad about Oxy’s better diversity, connections to a thriving theater scene outside of campus, and location in a more trans-friendly part of the country. (Not to mention much easier & cheaper to get to from Seattle!).
She does still have some waitlists (including Brandeis), but all at schools we didn’t visit so probably wouldn’t tip the balance in the end. We’re planning to have a family meeting this weekend and come to a final decision. Good luck to you with your decision—I’ll be interested to hear where your son ends up!