<p>I’m interested in hearing from parents of boys. My son is 16 and he hangs around with a girl who’s 18. He has taken her on several elaborate and expensive dates. But they are not “dating.” I think he has really fallen for her and she is stringing him along. It’s hard to come up with rules in this situation. We also have the restricted license with midnight curfew. He lost driving privileges after coming home at 2:30 am. All driving privileges, not just social. But I’m mainly concerned that he’s being pressured/encouraged to push the boundaries in order to become the “favored one.”</p>