<p>Actually to pick up on posts by ADad…the parents may want to positively reinforce some things the D is doing well…she is earning credits, gets OK grades, and is earning her degree. She also holds a job. Part of the issue may be the standards they are used to and expect. She is doing better than some young adults in those two areas, even if not up to par with high achiever types. </p>
<p>I also think if she lived away from the parents, she’d be forced to grow up and take on more responsibility. Not to mention, less opportunities for parent/child conflicts on a daily basis.</p>