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<p>Well, obviously they would not put it this way, but this is what it amounts to IMHO. The way they would put it is that women have certain “roles” and that a good woman will respect the confines of that role by NOT trying to make decisions that would be better left to a man, first the father, then the husband, who appropriately enough, are virtually the only two involved in the major decisions of the courtship <em>lol</em>.</p>
<p>~berurah</p>