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<p>oh… See I didn’t look at it that way. I looked at it from the perspective that both sexes would benefit overall from the system. </p>
<p>“Courting” prevents a girl from becoming too attached to a “bad unstable match” by falling in love and then not being able to “see” the inadequacies because he’s nice or funny. (Girls do tend to be attracted to men who are “nice” to them.) and it prevents a boy from thinking that he doesn’t have to make sure that he is a “worthy” of being a “suitor” (which prevents them from slacking off and not having “direction”. God, how many of those have we met in our dating lives!!!).</p>
<p>AND, I don’t agree that only the men in the situation are making the decisions – moms and the girl are involved and no girl has to be courted by anyone that doesn’t interest her.</p>