Denied by colleges? Use this thread as a support system.

<p>Dragon,
Except for curiosity, colleges won’t care why you took a gap year: They won’t hold it against you even if they learn that you took a gap because of not getting into any colleges. They will not check other colleges to see if you were rejected: Not only is it unlikely that they could get that info, the info isn’t even important to colleges.</p>

<p>What colleges will care about is what you do during your gap year and what your application looks like.</p>

<p>S is doing a gap year now as an Americorps volunteer after somehow not getting around to applying to colleges last year (I think that was because in his heart, S knew he wasn’t yet ready to go to college). Colleges were very impressed by his gap year activities, and during his interviews, he was asked about details of his gap year, not why he didn’t go directly to college.</p>

<p>Despite a gpa lower than yours, S probably could have gotten into some first tier colleges as some clearly were interested in him. I think that as a result of his gap year, he realized that he wanted to be around more laid back students, so didn’t apply to any first tier colleges.</p>

<p>If you end up not getting into colleges, do take a look at the “we’re picking up the pieces” thread that I provided a link to in post #238 because it contains some valuable info that probably would help you plan a productive gap year and application strategy for next fall.</p>

<p>If you applied only to Ivies and similar schools, you made a mistake by applying to only reach schools. Such universities are reaches for everyone. Your SAT scores also are low for such colleges and your ECs were ordinary for their pool, making the odds of your acceptance longer than normal.</p>

<p>You’d probably have better chances at colleges that don’t attract many international students. At such colleges, your being an American who attended h.s. in China would make you stand out. The Ivies and similar schools that offer good aid to internationals get a lot of excellent applicants who are Chinese, so your being an American who lived in China wouldn’t be a hook.</p>

<p>Thanks so much for you replies Northstarmom!
During my gap year… is it possible to maybe retake the SAT’s? Or would that hurt me more then help me?</p>

<p>Yes, it’s possible to retake the SATs. No way that would hurt you. Make sure that you study for the SATs, paying particular attention to the math part, which quickly can get rusty if you’re not taking math couorses.</p>

<p>um…wats ed?</p>

<p>Blah. I was rejected from/wait-listed by all of my reach schools.
The past three days have been a HUGE cry fest. </p>

<p>Got rejected by Brown (my dream school), Dartmouth, Yale, Vassar, and Tufts.
Got wait-listed by Middlebury.
Got accepted into Sarah Lawrence, American University, Bard College, CUNY Hunter Honors, and Binghamton.</p>

<p>I have decent options, but my ego hurts lol =/…especially because people in my school with lower grades than me, who did not spend nearly as much time and energy on their applications, got accepted over me because of their skin color. I am actually pro affirmative action, but when it affects me directly, it still hurts. </p>

<p>It makes me sad that next year I will not be going to the school I’ve dreamed about since freshman year, or even anything remotely close to it. I am still debating whether or not I should accept a place on the Middlebury wait-list.</p>

<p>by DontGiveUp </p>

<p>I applaud you kids. From the postings of your astronomical GPA’s and eye-popping SAT scores, I say America has a bright future. Yet, some of you kids need to have your priorities set straight. Let me tell you guys my story. I’m 23 years old now, so I have already finished walking the college tightrope. Well, I’ll be frank; I’e never even sent an application. Why, you say to yourself, this guy must be some good-for-nothing, welfare-using bum. How can one person choose not go to college? Does he not have any ambition? I do have ambition, I’ve just not had the financial resources to sustain a collegiate endeavor. I love my mom and pops; I don’t deserve their unbreakable love and support. However, back then I thought my parents owed me something. Why couldn’t they be smart and afford my college tuition too? I was a brat, a snot-nosed brat who had one whipping too little. I was forced to make do with my diploma. The highest paying company that hired me was, of course, the recruit-starved U.S Army. </p>

<p>I hoped to get a computer job, but with only a diploma, my butt was headed for Iraq. In Iraq, I have been shot at, cursed at (in three different dialects too!), and spat on. On a patrol of Najaf, I saw a Hummer in front of me get ripped to shreds by an IED. 2 men, I believe both were husbands with children, died in that vehicle; one person lost a foot. I was assigned to be in that vehicle, but the turret gunner on the second Hummer had a bad case of the flu. I volunteered to take his place. To this day, I thank whatever God is out there for sparing my life. However, this was nothing to what the Iraqis been through. You kids complaining about Hamlet? These kids are walking to school in constant danger of getting kidnapped, raped, incapacitated, and blown-up, all in succession. My treatment seems like a poorly executed wedgie compared to the hell these kids been through. Crying and whining about your rejection letter from Yale and Stanford? These kids would give their right arms (some have already did) to just attend a normal high school. </p>

<p>I remember a time when I was on a foot patrol in Baghdad. We were resting by a dirt-cracked soccer field where a couple of kids were playing. We probably stopped for only 5 minutes, but during those 5 minutes the kids seem to play with more vigor. They were yelling, laughing, and tackling each other. As soon as we were about to leave, one of the future soccer studs yelled out “Thanks for safety.” When was the last time you people thanked your parents for giving you a roof over your head, four sturdy walls around you, and a comfortable bed to sleep in?
I remember responding to a recent car bomb at a crowded marketplace. You might have heard of it on the news…50 people dead, mostly women with their children. So you got rejected from UCLA? At least you didn’t lose your mom. Or dad. Or your life. At least you don’t have the danger of being slaughtered while going to Safeway. </p>

<p>I remember getting what hopefully was my only kill in Iraq. Two insurgents were pretending to surrender to lure me out of my vehicle. Their glocks were in poor quality, so their crucial first shots were wild. I’m pretty sure I was the first that fired. And I’m pretty sure I emptied a 3 round burst into the chest of a human. To this day, I try to reason with myself over this event. He tried to kill me, I had to defend myself. Some of you kids may wish to kill that teacher who gave you that “dreaded” B+. Trust me, I know all of you are kidding, but killing a human is nothing to joke about. You have to live with the guilt…Was he a brother? Or maybe he had a bright future in music? Did he have a sweetheart back at home? You snuffed out someone’s dreams, and you have to live with that your whole life. Thankfully, a squad-mate wounded the other insurgent. I don’t know what I’ll do if I killed two people. </p>

<p>My time in Iraq changed me. That hellish sandbox may have almost killed me more times than I can count, but I’m grateful for the lessons it taught me. I by no means recommend ANY of you join the army, but I hope that you guys could take something from this story. The end is not near if Brown rejected your 4.5 GPA. There’s always another college out there. Work hard, and you will get into the graduate school of your choice (which is what most jobs look at anyways). Me? I’m currently earning my degree in Material Science at an UC. It’s not Berkeley, it’s not LA, but I was in tears after arriving on campus. People were giving me funny looks, but I didn’t care. I would like to conclude this long post, or rant, with a quote from a person many of you strive to be. As Bill Gates once said “There are many paths to heaven.”</p>

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<p>You guys really need to stop complaining lol, check out my results:</p>

<p>Wait list: BU (Big Surprise)</p>

<p>Rejections: Amherst, Tufts, Bowdoin, BC, College of the Holy Cross (Huge surprise!) </p>

<p>Acceptances: Uconn, Fairfield, Providence, and Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute</p>

<p>Waiting on: Notre Dame, and Wesleyan</p>

<p>I am afraid to go to my mailbox today. With a wait list at BU how would I be able to get into Wesleyan or Notre Dame? Sigh. I wasn’t expecting to go to RPI. :(</p>

<p>It hurts very much to get rejected almost everywhere i applied…
only one left now and i definitely have no hope now…</p>

<p>does it make sense that my #1 choice was a school i was pretty condifident in getting into and my backups were the “reach schools.” so thats y i’m not really bumming out. still stupid to get rejected though</p>

<p>my friend just got rejected from UVA, shes very sad, and I have to cheer her up. I dont know what to say, because she and I used to joke about how it was so easy to get into UVA, and now that she is rejected- there is no cheering her up. Should I do anything? Or…let it slide? Shes going to Virginia Tech instead, a reputable school in Virginia.</p>

<p>Drsuyi I have only one left as well. Goodluck to the both of us.</p>

<p>I feel for you. My son is also on 5 waitlists. There is a waitlist mania this year.</p>

<p>Cheer up, there are some schools that accept a decent percentage. Just keep you mind open while doing what you have to do and put a deposit down on your 9th choice.</p>

<p>The only place I actually got rejected was Harvard - not that that it such a bad thing to be able to say. Waitlisted at Brown and Columbia. I feel a bit like I got dumped, though, because Harvard was the only place I actually wanted to go. Did get in at Amherst, though, which made me feel better as it was my dream school for a while (until I discovered Harvard), and at NYU and Tufts. So now I have a dilemma. And waiting on Columbia. If they offer me a place I’ll take it in a second.</p>

<p>I’m so dejected because I feel like I’ve worked four years for nothing. It’s been a pretty bad week, especially since I had thought some of my waitlist schools were matches, not reaches. </p>

<p>Boston College- Waitlisted
Lehigh–Waitlisted
Emory–Waitlisted
UNC-CH-Waitlisted
Barnard-Rejected
UVA-Rejected
UMich–Still waiting but it’s probably a rejection; I don’t think they have that many spots left. I was deferred here, which was what miffed me off the most, since someone from my school with significantly worse stats than me got in on the day that I got deferred. </p>

<p>I got into Rutgers Honors and UIUC Honors (err, James Scholar), but I don’t know which one I want to go to now. I didn’t feel anything till I got Emory’s waitlist this morning and then I cried.</p>

<p>been very upset lately…got denied aftr working so hard…</p>

<p>rejected by MIT…</p>

<p>waitlisted by caltech nd stanford(wer i really wanna go)… : (</p>

<p>accepted at duke,carnegie,cornell nd Penn</p>

<p>rejected by everyone</p>

<p>Be happy! All of your choices, even the valectorian with a 5.3 Weighted GPA and 1000+ community service, and million of awards in Art and science, as well as numerous scholarships was denied by Duke and Cornell in the same day. you really need to be happy with those, they are all top 10 schools, and you should be proud. </p>

<p>Duke is amazingly hard to get into as well as Cornell and UPenn. </p>

<p>What are you majoring in? If it’s science-related, definitely Duke all the way.</p>

<p>I’m heart broken. The last three colleges I heard from were all rejections. </p>

<p>UF and UCSD- Last Friday
UCLA(#1 DREAM SCHOOl, WELL WHARTON USE TO BE MY #1)-Thursday</p>

<p>I only got into UW Seattle, UMass Amherst, UCF Orlando, and FSU in Tallahassee.</p>

<p>I still have yet to hear from UVA Charlottesville and UMD College Park. I hope these next two have some good news. Else, it’s to rainy Seattle I go.</p>

<p>I just found out i was rejected to Northwestern. That’s the second school that has rejected me. I’m really worried about USC and NYU now…</p>

<p>I really wish they would tell me already.</p>

<p>are there any good schools still taking apps</p>