Did I do the right thing?

Pre-College Topics High School Life
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<p>Yesterday I went on a date with a good friend of mine. I knew that she really likes me and I told her I liked her too but I didn’t know how much I did. So we went on this date and at the end I knew that it would never work. I told her that I didn’t feel there was a connection and that the best would probably be just friends.</p>

<p>She started crying and yelling at me that I was a heartless person. She told me to take her home and now she won’t text/call me back.</p>

<p>Did I do the right thing?</p>

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<p>sounds like you went down pretty hard. judging from her reaction, you probably should have broken the news to her in a more sensitive way</p>

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<p>Should have smacked her.</p>

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<p>there was really no other way to handle that</p>

<p>give her a couple days to calm down and then try calling her</p>

<p>dont call her right away. if she doesnt calm down a little first, she’ll just scream at you</p>

<p>its not your fault. nor is it hers.</p>

<p>sugarcoat it a little</p>

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<p>I think she’s overreacting… if she values your friendship then she’ll come around.</p>

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<p>you can’t change the past so don’t dwell on it anymore lol. just try to be nice to her and apologize when you get the chance.</p>

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<p>The way you broke it to her probably sounded a bit harsh but you can’t really do much about it now so just try to rebuild your platonic relationship with her.</p>

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<p>Well if you truly knew it would never work then the end result would have been the same anyway, so I suppose you did the right thing.</p>

<p>But it seems she is on the more sensitive end of the spectrum, so perhaps you should have tried to find a better way to break it to her.</p>