<p>This reminds me how years ago when H and I were first married I set the “no smoking in our home” rule. It was very difficult because many of H’s relatives smoked and we had large parties on occasion. I am extremely sensitive to smoke and can feel my breathing shut down when around it. Anyway, we still had aunts who would light up when out of our sight and I had to ask these older relatives to please go outside on several occasions before they realized how serious I was. It’s amazing to me that now, about 25 years later, it is the norm that smokers head outside if they plan to smoke. ( one aunt so far died of lung cancer. Three other relatives quit years ago and never went back.)</p>