I like #4 but all are amazing and I wish I looked that good in my dresses!
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You really do look great in all of them. #1 is my least favorite, and I really don’t like those sleeves (for me). I LOVE the red one on you (didn’t you wear a red dress to some other fancy event?), but if red is not the best to wear to weddings, I’d go with #3. #4 is fine also, but LOTS of people will probably be wearing black.
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I love all those dresses! I do love #1 especially for the sleeves! I understand they may be a pain when eating etc but I think they LOOK fabulous! You can’t go wrong in any of the dresses. Does one just make you feel like “Oh yeah, this one is it!”?
If you wear #1 or #4 your jewelry choices will be more limited to not compete with the dress. So if you have some piece or necklace that you are dying to wear, then maybe choose #2 or 3.
Enjoy!!
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I’d choose #4 with #3 as the runner up (love the color!)
I don’t love the sleeves on #1, but that’s me.
You look fab in all of them!
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Thanks, all! I appreciate everyone’s input.
I wore red (twice) to our son’s graduation in June. But, not this dress. I struggle with both red and black for weddings. Though, I honestly think if the black were a tad shorter (it is a midi dress, but I think it is at an awkward length on me as it is), I would wear that one. No time to get it hemmed, however.
I have worn #1 to a wedding before, but this is a different circle of friends. That neckline is not the best for me (‘cause my girls hang low). I do love the fabric and the sleeves, but this wedding does have a sit down dinner, so the sleeves might be challenging. #1 and #4 are the dressiest.
My husband likes #3 the best. I do have some sparkly silver shoes and bag that could dress it up. It is rather plain. I was a bit worried it was too springy of a color, but a friend reminded me that there are mums that color!
I wish I knew if there were going to be dancing. #4 would definitely be the hardest for that.
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Fancy wedding of two gay guys? My bet is on great dancing music and a floor to do it on.
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I’m with your husband! That dress is beautiful and will be easy to jazz up with sparkly accessories and shoes. 
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The length was what I liked on #4. But agree that it would be hard to dance in.
I’d wear #3 if that what your husband likes best. And silver accessories will bling it up.
A gay wedding I think will be glitzy, fun and lots of dancing!
Seriously though you look great in all of them!
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I’ve worn red to several weddings. There were other attendees also wearing red dresses. (I did double-check with mom of the bride who said it was fine). The burgundy is not as bright a red and would look awesome with some nice accessories and looks very comfortable to wear and dance in. The fact that your H likes it best is another bonus!
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3 would be beautiful & easy to accessorize
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Now that I’ve brightened my screen, I see that 3 isn’t even red. It’s a lovely shade of fuchsia. If wear that and have your H know you’re looking amazing. I admit I’m biased—when I’m undecided I let my H vote on my final choices and we choose one we both like.
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Oh, I too give my husband voting and veto power on dresses. Really, he’s likely the only person paying much attention to what I’m wearing.
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Your husband pays attention? Unless I was naked or incredibly inappropriately dressed, mine would have no idea. I always wonder if I disappeared, if he could describe what I had on 
Glad to hear that some husband’s do. It was difficult picking out a MOB dress because he was clueless
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I don’t give my husband veto power. He will sometimes comment but I’d ask a few friends or my daughter for an opinion before I’d ask my husband.
I’m invited to a wedding mid November. They have provided any details on dress. I go back and forth between email the MOB and just wearing something nice but not overly fancy.
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Interesting discussion on voting by spouse on outfits. It’s funny - I have such strong preferences and ideas that it never occurs to me to ask my husband’s opinion, LOL.
I did coordinate the colors of he, our daughter, and me at a recent wedding. That might have been a bit much
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My vote is for #3. Long waisted gals need to stay away from crew necks, it just makes everything too long towards our belly buttons. Not balanced.
I like the neckline of #4, but the dress is too long. #3 has all the right detail and fun color.
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I’m glad. That is my fav for the occasion. You look great in everything
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Oh, thank you! It was such a fun event!!!
Dancing?