Dressing Young 2025

I like Garnet Hill and I love that linked sweater. I haven’t ordered clothes from them for several years but in the past I’ve ordered swimsuits, sweaters and linen. I would order more if shipping was free.

I’ve been happy with my linen from Quince. I also ordered a rug pad which was fine. My sister ordered bedding from them and was happy. I sent back all the sweaters I’ve tried from them just didn’t look great on me. I used to get a lot of less expensive cashmere from Macy’s around the holiday time.

I agree with the Third Love t-shirt bras. I’ve had several for a number of years and they are the most flattering and have held up well. When I’m really not in the mood for underwire (which is most of the time :blush:) I have switched to Eby and they are more comfortable and still pretty flattering.

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At Kohls yesterday I noticed they had 3rd Love bras (2 pack, $99). But sizing is just S/M/L/XL/2X/3X. Seems pricey for not having band/cup variations.

How well endowed are those of you managing with the tshirt bras? :slight_smile: And does it manage some lift and no bounce??

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I use 34dd with no underwire from Bali & Wacoal. I don’t jog so not an issue. It works well enough for me.

Oh, not well at all! I buy a 34.5 B. Nice lift, a little padding/smoothing. I’d describe my boobs as just a step up of what you’d see on an obese adolescent boy. I have to wear a bra, a little bit for support, a lot for shape.

I usually wear a compression bra for running, but the 3rd Love bras manage bounce well for the every day.

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I found this bra on HerRoom a few months back and liked it so much that I bought another color on sale from Bali. The underwire doesn’t annoy me and it does an excellent job of supporting my senior saggy bosom.

https://www.balibras.com/products/one-smooth-u-reg-smoothing-concealing-underwire-bra/df3w11

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Of course if I’m running or other physical activity I wear a supportive sports bra. But even in everyday life I prefer the look of a supported chest that isn’t “bouncy” when I’m walking the dog or doing yard work, whatever.

While not perfect or perky I actually feel like my 34ish D, breastfed 3 babies, boobs are in decent shape! :slight_smile: But a tshirt bra while comfortable doesn’t seem to hold it’s shape for the size of my girls!

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For me rotating between 3 different bras instead of the same one every day seems to extend their longevity and ability to support me.

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Amen! :slight_smile:


I’ve bought this on several different colors. It works for me well enough.

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Since we are sharing bras, I really like this inexpensive bra I bought. It’s surprisingly comfortable lol.

https://a.co/d/cbHJx6N

That’s the one I’ve been wearing!

Funny, after this bra talk one Instagram person I follow NOT for clothes (for books) was sharing her fav new bras and she has a rack, if you know what I mean. I’ll find the links to the two she loves - I have to say they are no wire and her girls look good (she is only about 40 but she is well endowed)

https://a.co/d/7O05bet

Thicker strap

https://a.co/d/99AofVC

I’ve bought 3 of that same Vanity Fair bra, I think you recommended it, @abasket in the Prime day thread? Anyways, it is very comfortable and a great price. I’m not well endowed but as we age, gravity- I’ve tried some of the T-shirt bras and feel like I look saggy.

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How are we defining tee shirt bras? I thought a tee shirt bra was one that made it so nothing shows when you wear it under a tee shirt. Does it have a particular structure too?

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You’re right. I see a tshirt bra as a bra that makes a tshirt a very smooth look and is probably a soft fabric but with some structure.

A bralette on the other hand is what some might refer to a tshirt bra because sometimes they are more of a stretchy fabric - like a “loose” sports bra (so not so much compression)

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Ditto. Minimal embellishments to look smooth under a tee plus some padding to minimize the headlights effect.

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You’ll be delighted to know that spring/summer 2026 is showing fairly natural shoulders and bubble skirts (not necessarily together). Oh. And Prada has a take on dirndls.

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Unfortunately for me, by the time I decided I really wanted the cashmere bomber, the sale was off. Hopefully they will have another sale soon, and they will still have at least the blue/green color left. I really like the purple too, but that’s gone in my size.

I have not bought from GH recently, but over the years, I have gotten a number of items from them. One of my longest-lasting cashmere sweaters came from them. I’ve always felt their quality was good.

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