<p>"If we support a woman’s right to choose, don’t we have to support her right to choose for any reason, even if we find it morally repugnant? "</p>
<p>Yes, we do, the key problem is morality is not an absolute, moral values vary from culture to culture, from person to person, from religion to religion. Most jews have no problems with abortion from a religious perspective from what I understand, because in Jewish tradition a fetus is not considered human unless it is viable outside the mother (basically, if you think about it, it becomes human when it is born). A lot of people are troubled by abortion, but also believe that has to be up to the mother/parents. The problem with the anti abortion argument is there is no clear, definitive test you can give to say something is human; evangelicals and the Catholic Church believe even a fertilized embryo is human, even though it is basically a collection of cells looked at logically. We know someone doesn’t become self aware without higher brain functions, yet that ability happens pretty far into the gestation process. The religious go by the idea that even a fertilized embryo is human because it has been in effect ‘touched by god’ or ‘given a soul’ at conception, yet there is no test for that, it is simple belief…</p>
<p>The problem with beliefs is if you choose to enforce one person’s belief over another, you are taking away their choice and their beliefs. I personally am troubled by abortion in the sense that as a form of birth control it is idiotic, when there are so many choices out there to prevent pregnancy, but I also respect the right of people to decide their own futures, and I also know how tough some of those decisions are. I don’t know if we found out when my wife was pregnant that our unborn child had some major issue like down’s or tay sachs or whatever, that would lead to a lot of things, but I also know that decision would have to be ours, not someone else’s. </p>
<p>What disturbs me about this is a doctor playing God like that, deciding what someone else’s decision should be. I can see a doctor refusing to do abortions, I can see doctors that refuse to prescribe birth control that is the prerogative, but not giving the parents information they need to make serious decisions like this? It would be like a doctor not telling a patient they had AIDS, because he wanted them to die horribly from ‘the wages of sin’, it is in effect doing what doctors are not supposed to do, cause harm.</p>
<p>It is funny, I remember stories of when NY decided to legalize abortion, and one of the big votes was from a State Senator at the time (I think his name was Marchi or some such), guy was Catholic. He voted to make it legal, and was absolutely excoriated for it, was villified by the church, got death threats, etc. Anyway, when he was asked why he voted for it, he told the story, his married daughter had a child with some sort of mental retardation (might have been Downs, I don’t remember), and he described how the strain of caring for that child caused all kinds of issues in her marriage (ended up with the husband walking away, sadly) and so forth. He said his daughter would never think of getting an abortion, that she like he felt it was the wrong thing to do, but he also said having seen the agony of his own daughter, he couldn’t force others to go through that in good faith. The real problem with this law is it takes the matter out of the hands of those who have to deal with it, whatever the situation is, and assumes that their moral position, their beliefs are the only ones that matter, and more importantly, also shows how little they care about the impact of their moral beliefs. It reminds me a lot of the ban on condoms in the Church and debates in a country with a heavy Catholic Presence (Uganda), where thanks to pressure from the church and from the election of a Catholic president, programs to teach sex ed and distribution of condoms were stopped and other anti AIDS initiatives…and new infections, which had plummeted since the advent of those programs, skyrocketed once again…it is about looking at the moral evils and thinking which is worse, and what the impact is on others about something I believe.</p>