Totally agree on the buyer’s remorse feeling—it’s a real thing. After choosing SPS, my daughter occasionally said things like “maybe I should’ve picked Andover,” but when I ask if she’d actually want to transfer, her answer is always a quick “no way—I love it here.”
I think it’s just natural to second-guess when you’ve had several great options. These are big decisions at a young age, and it’s hard not to wonder “what if?” now and then.