<p>As I have mentioned, I have lost job 9 times. Some were my own going somewhere else, but I have had my share of lay offs. The rule is the same, keep you mouth shut and leave on very good and positive terms. You always should take care of your future, that means good references. It does not matter who is right and who is wrong at this point. I have never alsed, I just listened and kept silent as much as I could…one reason I have always found another job. Just think about yourself and your next place. I do not know any other ways.</p>