<p>So, I met a girl at a Cross Country meet, and it turns out that we have a lot in common. She is very mathy/sciency like, me, plays video games, and she’s cute too. We are thinking of going to see a movie next week, and… I’m nervous. I haven’t dated a girl in my life.</p>
<p>I know everybody has shared such feelings. Males, what have you done on a first date? Females, what have you done, or what do you expect from thine male suitor?</p>
<p>Thanks!</p>
<p>my advice: don’t date. its a waste of time, energy, and resources. </p>
<p>As a girl, I’d honestly just expect you to relax and enjoy yourself and the time you’re spending with this girl. If you have a phone, don’t spend more time focusing on it than your date; I’d also expect you to be polite and respectful of what I have to say. Don’t stress about it, have fun, and don’t push physical/emotional boundaries that either of you are uncomfortable with; if it works out and you eventually become boyfriend/girlfriend (I’m just assuming you’re a guy), great! If not, hopefully you at least remain friends and still enjoy each other’s company.</p>
<p>Best of luck.</p>