First of all congratulations to everyone on their accomplishments, whether you got into HYSPMC or CC. Just being done with high school is a big deal.
I was lurking on the Ivy Day thread these last couple of weeks and I was struck by the number of unhooked (not URMs, not Athletes and based on sheer number could not be a legacy EVERYWHERE and not Intel Finalist) applicants who had already been accepted or gotten likely letters from more than one USNWR Top 20 Elite (whatever the definition).
For those who got in MULTIPLE TIMES, I really want to understand WHY (of course for selfish reasons as I have a younger child). In most cases it seemed the person had REALLY good but not perfect stats (3.9UW, 2300).
If you are unhooked and got in multiple places, why do YOU think you got in?
What were your stats?
Are you a better writer? (I think this is a big one, having a genuine voice that has not been polluted by an English teacher or paid coach, Do you agree?)
Did you raise millions for orphans, invent an app used by everyone? (and if you did are you part of that BELOW 3.7/2200 club?)
Is it your school, is it a feeder (does that even happen?) Does your GC have H’s president on speed dial (again does that even happen?!)
Do something else?
Was there a reason you got into those particular schools (eg accepted UPenn and Columbia and Dartmouth, rejected Cornell) and rejected from others?
There are people who got Yale and no other but the more common pattern seems to be you get nothing (or perhaps a couple of top WLs) or get 3-5 or MORE schools that many would want. While I understand someone getting 1 or 2, given the crap shoot aspect, how is it that lightening is striking that many times in the same place and completely skipping the 2400/4.0 Class President in the next building?
I realize people should go to the school that suits them, which may be the #50 school and I know more than one kid that made that choice, whether for money or personal preference. However, sometimes the school that suits them best happens to be a prestigious one.
Yes I have read the advice over and over, if you cannot afford to donate a building, then be genuine, follow your passion where ever that leads you. Get involved and take APs and get As in them. Study hard for the SATs and subject tests and do the best you possibly can. Then relax and have fun! I personally think fit is BS unless you are talking about a clear introvert who justs wants to research going to UMichigan Ross or Duke or a party animal who talks about going out every night applying to a school like JHU. For everyone else, I think you can be equally happy at Dartmouth and Columbia (the two everyone always brings up as being SO different.)
I realize similar questions have been posted over and over but I am interested in the recent student/parent perspective as to WHY they think it happened. For example, when my kid applied to college, some time ago, while her stats were in line for every place, though not perfect, but good enough, I can think of a reason why she got in to every place she did. For some it was legacy that gave her that little boost, for one she had a really compelling reason for wanting to go to THAT school and discussed it in her essay, for some they like her school and for some her stats were just much higher than their 75%. The rejections were more confusing although she got none that were a “shock” fortunately, a couple of WLs from target schools she did not show interest in which she refused.
Speaking of rejections, the ones that always confuse me are the poster who says, got into H, S and Y but was deferred SCEA Princeton and then rejected. Confusing, a lot
Congratulations!