<p>UCDalum:</p>
<p>I think a large part of the problem was that the arrangements were not made by Binx’s son; he had no control over much of his itinerary, so when things went awry because of the weather, his hands were tied much more than if he had been on his own. Then once he was in Korea, he was overcontrolled, told only a few minutes beforehand what was going to happen next. Binx’s son was trying hard to accommodate someone who’d made promises but turned out to be totally unresponsive.</p>
<p>For the record, I came to this country at 17. I had to make a connection; it turned out that the airline’s attendant swere on strike, so I could not get onto my flight. I had to book into a hotel and come back the next day to the airport. I did not quite know what to do with my luggage, how to book into a hotel, but I managed because I knew enough English to ask for assistance. By the time I arrived at my destination, it was 1am. My host had young children and could not come to the airport to meet me. So I got into a taxi. I did not feel helpless thanks to being able to speak English (however badly at the time). But I would have, if I’d been to Korea instead of the US and did not speak a word of Korean and had no idea what awaited me or what I was supposed to do once I reached my destination.</p>