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<p>Oh, man, I love that line. And very true. Keep the focus on the transfer itself (financial, credits, major), not the bf. </p>
<p>In our situation, oldest d’s hs bf picked the same school she did, and then she broke up with him that summer. It was a small school, and the bf made things as awkward and uncomfortable as he could for her. If bf winds up at big state U, there’s less of a chance this could be an issue.</p>