There appears that there are two types of fixers on this thread. The ones who say “this is what I would do” and the ones who say “this is what you should do, and if you don’t, you’re an idiot”.
I really try to stay in the former category. I also try not to ever say “I told you so”-I stick with “well that just stinks” when the dumpster fire inevitably happens.
I’m also getting better at sticking to the “not my circus, not my monkeys” mantra.