<p>Thanks Arabrab. </p>
<h1>1 - It is actually a set stipend amount that approximates full cost of attendance. Looking more closely, it comes up about $2500 short with expected tuition increase. She would have to maintain a 3.5, but grace is offered. The travel component is somewhat flexible and some kids managed to visit all 7 continents over four years using group travel plus individual travel allowance. The program also supports two terms of study abroad. This is a state school with a top notch honors program and is a good fit for her study plans. In fact, a recent Rhodes Scholar she met has done what D hopes to do there. Med school placement is admirable; some are top, but many are mid-level schools. Internship opportunities seem respectable and abundant for these scholars.</h1>
<h1>2 - Her second scholarship possibility is at a T20 private. The scholarship has more inflexible travel which will conflict with D’s beloved summer employment as a camp counselor. The scholarship only requires maintaining a 3.0 and provides a computer. We won’t have the nitty-gritty on cost benefits unless/until she wins - she’s still in the semi- round. The school perfectly fits her study plans and has more medical school top placement. Not sure about handling of outside scholarship money, but based on what I’ve learned, it would probably be absorbed.</h1>
<h1>3 - I think an Ivy, if she gains admittance, would cost us about 5K/year. Truly a bargain, but again, outside scholarship money would be absorbed - used to replace financial aid grant money or offset self-help/loan components. Travel would be limited to study abroad, not at all bad, but not as extensive as the two scholarships.</h1>
<p>D can only fully engage in her primary extracurricular activity at school #1. She has many friends that she’s met from across our state in this activity going to school #1 and bonded exceptionally well with scholars at interview weekend. She would be a huge fish in a very big pond at school #1.</p>
<p>At school #2 she is considered in the top 2% of applicants based on their definition of those receiving a likely letter. Winning a full scholarship would put her in the top 1%. At Ivys she would be an average student.</p>
<p>Incidentally, S is at an Ivy. He likes, but does not love it. Unlike D, he has no idea what he wants to do. D has the intrinsic motivation and drive to open her own doors. S will need the Ivy diploma to help him.</p>
<p>We are committed to paying for D’s school whichever she chooses, but helping with medical school will be dependant on the cost of undergrad. (And we would like a little $ left for retirement!) She realizes that to do non-profit work, debt from medical school must be minimized. Putting this in writing is helping me see things I need to ask and frame for D’s understanding and consideration, but I covet additional insight from those who have gone before me :).</p>