<p>I would want my first time to be with a guy who isn’t a virgin, but I would want the <em>love</em> of my life (future husband, SERIOUS boyfriend, etc.) to be a virgin…or at least someone who has only been with a few people. </p>
<p>When it all comes down to it though, I just want someone who hasn’t slept with a lot of people…whether it is my first time, or my last time.</p>
<p>so for your first time you want a guy that’s slept with (possibly) a lot of people, but for your last time you want a guy who has (possibly) slept with equal or less people than you? huh?</p>
<p>So far I’ve only managed to cure my brother. He’s been dating his girlfriend (who’s 5’9 ) for a little over two years, now. </p>
<p>His last two girlfriends before her were around 5’1…it irritated me a lot, so I made fun of them relentlessly (only to him, of course). It wasn’t nice, but it got the job done.</p>
<p>^yeah. it’s kind of hypocritical. but, it happens in other ways. like wanting to marry someone who cooks, when you yourself can’t make kraft mac and cheese. or wanting someone who hasn’t been married before and you have. i don’t know, something like that.</p>
<p>but it does seem stupid to want expect the person you are going to marry to be a virgin if you aren’t one. i mean you can “want” him/her to be, but you can’t actually hold anything against them.</p>
<p>Okay, if you honestly are shallow enough that you require the person you marry to be able to cook for be some sort of sex God, than you probably deserve the divorce that’s coming to you. A marriage contract isn’t a job resume. All the girls I’ve ever enjoyed being with were simply girls I enjoyed the company of and was attracted to.</p>
<p>aw. Actually, I was deeply infatuated with a guy that wasn’t on the tall side at all. He was super, super hot (or seemed to be at the time to everyone and their mother). So don’t worry, you can be a sexy AND short guy.</p>
<p>I’m a short guy (5’7") and I’ve been with girls my height and taller (last girl I hooked up with was 5’9". . .love those high jumpers ). Height shouldn’t make a difference as long as you look good.</p>
<p>I’ve dated guys that are an inch or so shorter. I’m not the type to write off a guy completely because of their height, but I definitely prefer a guy 6’2 and over (I’m good up to 7’, really).</p>
<p>If a guy’s a virgin, that’s a turn on for me. I know people don’t conventionally think of a guy’s viriginity as a gift, but if you’re the one that he feels most comfortable around, or rather, the one that can get him to want you like that… that’s definitely a good feeling. </p>
<p>But I say that in the context of a serious relationship. Whining male virgins who are begging to “get it over with” with a one night stand… egh.</p>