<p>i prefer virgins, i think. it makes me less insecure about my inexperience.</p>
<p>flipchick, understandable. but i can say that not everyone who has sex before marriage is simply throwing their bodies away. people can be very selective in who they let touch their bodies and not be virgins and still respect themselves. but not everyone does that, true. i don’t think are bodies are that “sacred”, but they are ours and we should take care of them accordingly. and you can do that and not be a virgin. afterall, not being a virgin doesn’t mean you’re a ho. it means you’ve had sex at least once, not that you have it all the time. it’s like saying i drink alcohol. that doesn’t mean i do it all the time. i could have a drink once every month, b/c i like it and not b/c i’m pressured, but i still technically drink alcohol. ok…that was a bad comparison, but you get my drift.</p>
<p>well whatever you’re doing, remember…“no glove no love”. haha.</p>
<p>pongo,
so technically you would prefer a guy with experience for your own benefit. i mean, you only say you prefer virgins so you don’t look TOO bad. but if you found a guy who wasn’t a virgin but didn’t care at all that you were…wouldn’t you prefer him? you know, in terms of simple selfish satisfaction. i say this based on your reason. i could be wrong.</p>
<p>I wish there were more of them. </p>
<p>I’m also in the “waiting till marriage” group…but am not religious at all. Most of the virgin guys I’ve known have been extremely religious (::cringe::), so dating has been more than a little frustrating for me thus far (which is fine since I’m only 18). </p>
<p>Being 5’10 doesn’t help the situation, either…damn short girls always seem to date the tall guys. Meh. </p>
<p>Surely I’ll find someone that works out for me during college or shortly after, though. I’m not really liking the idea of being 40 and unmarried too much.</p>
<p>^ lol, that’s me. Super short girl always dating tall guys. </p>
<p>I can’t bring myself to date anyone that isn’t tall. They’re so much hotter.</p>
<p>Current, I understand that not everyone is like that. I guess I might have generalized a bit. I just personally respect guys that are virgins because they choose to be.</p>
<p>current_student, i suppose it wouldn’t matter in that case. i guess this is really a moot point for me seeing as i deffinitely have to be in a relationship to have sex, it’s just that… i get embarrased being the inexperienced prude or whatever. meh.</p>
<p>Don’t be embarrased. Especially if you’re a girl.
The whole ‘learning’ thing is really fun when you’re in a relationship and trying stuff out for the first time. =]</p>
<p>“I can’t bring myself to date anyone that isn’t tall. They’re so much hotter.”</p>
<p>:(</p>
<p>I agree that taller guys seem to be much more good-looking, though. I love tall and lanky guys…sooo cute.</p>
<p>^i was with you until the lanky part. haha.</p>
<p>i know some cute/hot short guys, but i’m never attracted to them. i just think they look nice. but a guy def has to be tall. not just taller than me, above 6 ft. i’m tall for a girl.</p>
<p>I don’t like guys that are thin. But I hate muscle-y guys too.</p>
<p>By lanky I don’t mean skinny. Just tall with lean muscles. I’m not a fan of guys that look like they could snap me in two with one hand.</p>
<p>I feel your pain, current. I’m 5’10 and seem to still be growing a bit. Guys that are 6’2 and up are very yay :)</p>
<p>^then that’s lean. not lanky. you mean like swimmer type bodies right? kind of lean and thin…in a guyish type way, right? yeah that’s fine. but lanky to me means icobod craneish. unless it’s johnny depp type from sleepy hollow. but i digress.</p>
<p>yeah, i used to be like 6’2 and up…but i’ve learned 6ft is fine. i can’t imagine being a guy that’s less than 6 ft tall. having to say “i’m five foot whatever” seems so…short.</p>
<p>Yeah, like a swimmer. Saying I like lean guys seems like I’m saying I like girly-looking guys, though, so I say lanky.</p>
<p>Preference goes to the 6’2 and uppers but 6’ is fine, too.</p>
<p>interesting. i think lean means muscular but not bulky. like a swimmer or volleyball player.</p>
<p>doesn’t lanky imply being skinny, tall, and awkward? ewww.</p>
<p>I guess I really have no idea. lol</p>
<p>Lean is a definitely a better description, so I’ll go with that from now on.</p>
<p>sweet. i’m taking over the world one katho at a time.</p>
<p>And I’m getting tall guys to stop liking short girls one by one, so yay for us.</p>
<p>Guy virgins are hot. :D</p>
<p>(look at little me.)</p>
<p>I would rather him be one</p>
<p>Hey, don’t get tall guys to stop liking short girls! You start liking short guys or something. Hightest. =p</p>