<p>Benley,
My advice is that if not that BS is great for everyone. It is if your PS is terrible and BS is the only way your child can get a decent education - then you will find a way to do so. I think it is wrong saying my C got full tuition at school B, but A did not give them enought and “what do we do” as we want to go to A. You go to B or borrow.</p>
<p>Again, my experiance is grad school, but we never budged on increasing the amount of FA we offer someone when they come back to negotiate. If they don’t like the offer and another gives them better, then they should go to the other or raise the differance themselves. If they show us the info is wrong (divorced during the year so W2 incorrect) that is something different.</p>