I have a son there so I don’t know much about the sororities except that my son and his friends say that frats and sororities are not a big part of the social scene at Hamilton. Your daughter should definitely not feel excluded for not joining a sorority. The Fiske Guide to Colleges says only 18% of women are members of a sorority at Hamilton. Frats and sororities don’t have houses at Hamilton, which might be why they don’t dominate the social scene on campus.
Are frats and sororities a big part of the social scene at any of the NESCAC schools? Anyone know? I remember on our tours of colleges that Bates and Colby both said they don’t have Greek life.