<p>I think parents have differing opinions as to “having to visit.” Certainly my D has had her share of medical issues, and I have wanted to be there to help. But, I didn’t HAVE to and trusted her and her medical providers to handle a myriad of issues. Me being there would not have changed her situation one bit. Blossom mentioned viral pneumonia. Really? That should not require the presence of a parent. Of course, D is at a small college with a caring PA and NP who could give her personalized care.</p>